suitable?

a friend of mine told me that she regretted her move into this line. she was earning well, had a carefree life doing her stuff and running her races. but i guess its must be her Erickson's theory stage 7 - Generativity vs. Stagnation acting up. thus make her wanting to care for others and 're-generate' herself in the care for others. =)

but a short while into it, she is screaming "help! i am choking to death!!" she felt a misfit and is terrible. while she complaints of work and the technical aspect of the flow. i am more focus on the working relationship part of these. i had been backstabbed and did some major mistakes but having that few nice people around gets me wanting to wake up and go to work everyday. so no matter how hard or boring or meaningless others may feel (and eventually quit the race), i am still happy as long as i am working with a nice and approachable person that day. =) i think i had not grown too much emotionally from my sec. sch. days where friends and the feeling of acceptance is the most important factor of life. o_O''

i felt sad when i heard of others breaking their bonds. i wonder why those As students quit, while those not so great students like us struggle on. if promotion and 'fast-tracking' are a privileges for those As students.... what will happens when most of those As students leave and what are left are those diligent Bs and Cs students? do the organisation then bestow those so call privileges for those Bs and Cs students or do they rather source for new batches of As students who in turn might repeat their precedents' doings? i am puzzled. o_O?